I remember sitting in a circle, kekeing with my sistars and elders as we explored the dynamics of the vagina. It began with us calling out names we have historically used to address her. “Pussy” “Va-jay-jay” “Honey Pot” “Cootie Cat” and we flowed into the verbs that were used to describe intimacy with her. We laughed and shadowed each other, reaffirming terms like “beat it up” and “smash” and “fuck”. This language began to unravel itself to me. I started to reflect upon moments where old lovers would ask if “it was theirs” and the uncomfortability I felt when I would be asked if they were “tearing it up”. Here I sat with my sistars and my coaches and we worked through debunking these terms. The yoni is a sacred space, and while she may give pleasure, much is to be consumed by her to please her.
My auntie (read as my God-Mother, and or my coach in spirit) unpacked the true ability of our wombs. “The womb is a multiplier.” Anything that enters our womb is enhanced, for the high vibrations and low vibrations. Men come to us to multiply their seed, yeast or bacteria multiplies and spreads within, and our manifestations, when channeled through our wombs come into fruition. Our session that night closed with us subconsciously choosing a number 1-9 that was connected to an image of vulva - and we were to then own that, it was now my vulva. We also had to name our wombs. I called mine “mama,” because she houses so much power, creation, and legacy.
I walked away from that session no longer wanting to use harmful language to identify the pleasure that was received by my yoni. I became more intune with celebrating her and caring for her through many avenues. Yoni eggs have been a tool for me to explore that care. Helping fortify my uterine walls, I have worked with a number of stones through my womb, to have a full body experience with the change I was hoping to make.
Cleanse the yoni egg in pure warm water
Charge the yoni egg in the moon or the sun with your clear quartz / selenite
I bought my first stone some years ago. A Carnelian from YoniEggs.com. The Carnelian is great for sacral and root chakra work. Helping drive forth your manifestations and make you more creative. Carnelian for me was intended to help me stand strong in my root chakra, and I found using the stone not only made me feel safer, it ignited me during a time I was looking to make a change in my power as a woman, and as a co creator with spirit.
I got a little over zealous this past month. I bought three different eggs. Rose Quartz for compassion and femininity, Opalite for balance and agility, and unakite for healing past trauma and abuse that often crosses my mind. The healing I seek relates directly to my womb, my divine feminine, and it also connects to my entire being, balancing my feminine and masculine. So these eggs help me walk along my path, knowing I have tools that supplement the journey.
Sometimes I wear my stones all day. Sometimes I simply meditate with them in. I could also go weeks without wearing one. Eventually I want to go down a size, and exercise my walls, by keeping a smaller one in. That’s the challenge. The smaller you go, the more work you have to do, to keep it in. It’s fun, experimenting, and channeling through “Mama”. I like to think she likes when I wear eggs. I like to think I am treating her well, when I adorn her in stones and jewelry and create with her. My yoni needs all the self love she can get. My earth needs a happy yoni.
Places I ordered my yoni eggs:
Rock Star Crystals, Manhattan
CrystalAge on Amazon